Porn: Where are female orgasms?

I just realized something very bothersome – where are all the female orgasms in porn?!?!?!  I mean, if we use it for educational purposes (and I do…  ahem…  educate myself quite a bit), then why is it that the scenario is always the same: foreplay, oral sex, straight sex, kinky sex, guy cums inside/outside, Fin.  Wait, what about the girl?  There is rarely, if ever, a moment, when a woman goes “Yes, I am coming, I am coming…. ” her hips shake, she clenches the sweat-drained guy who is desperately working to give her the pleasure she moans about while holding back his own orgasm…

Or am I missing all these moments?  Can someone point SOMETHING out that’s reasonable?

Fantasy – blinded, girl in control…

OK, this is not too bad…  I’ve never done this – gotta say it’s pretty appealing:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/15595

Watching this along with seeing a blog of a swinger, I got an idea…  this sort of stuff should be far more educational – porn bringing about skill in bed.  Moreover, if we take this progression one step forward, we have:

Step 1 – people open their minds with respect to dating

Step 2 – people discover porn

Step 3 – people start learning from porn and it turns into an educational aid

Step 4 – individuals start getting together and teaching/learning things

I often feel like I have no clue what I am doing.  Or rather I know, but it’s as if I barely speak the alphabet let alone form sentences out of words.  For example, one of my lovers several years ago taught me how to do a mutual bite…  it was quite incredible – parts of me woke up that were purely animal: a connection through something intangible – pain.  Yet this, I feel, may be just the tip of the iceberg…  Could amateur porn and user-generated content bring about a revolution in sex?

Amateur porn… so much better…

http://www.youporn.com/watch/16175

 Amazing, YouPorn strikes again.  Although for some reason it doesn’t play all the way to the end, but this to me is far more erotic than any of the pro stuff. The way she moves the hips, the occasional awkwardness, the chilling…  the work the dude’s putting in for her at some point reminds me of how what once was so desperately desired turned into hard work for her sake at some point in time

 Gotta love the way she’s moving the hips though…  really neat, never seen that before.

Skill? Oooh…

OK, seriously, if this:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/25275

is not an amazing blowjob, I don’t know what is.

 And this:

 http://www.youporn.com/watch/22028

Arguably not the best hand-job, but some neat tricks that she does there.  I love the tunnel (going in and going out perpetually rather than up and down) and the way she makes his body react at the end when he cums…   hmm…  very nice.

YouPorn: Sex + Humor = Good?

You know, sometimes you come across something that just makes you smile…   This sex clip is one of those things – the way sex maybe should be:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/29302