http://www.youporn.com/watch/68100
Different, but very interesting… Warning – the end is stupid and completely unnecessary – you might as well skip it after the dude comes. BTW, girls, in case you want to try this and the guy is not circumcized – USE LUBRICATION!!!! please please please please…
I should give this a try 
http://www.youporn.com/watch/113215
OK, so the girl is cute, teases well in the beginning, but… the good part is the fact that she deep throats – that looks amazing. Towards the end, the way she focuses on the head of the penis while using her hand, also very good. But… correct me if I am wrong:
1. The bodies are completely out of sync. She is not relaxed, when he is moving, there is no resonance.
2. She keeps doing that thing with her mouth when she thinks that she just has to go up and down on the penis only touching it with her lips… unless she was using the tongue flat on the base, in which case…
Kudos to her that she let the guy come in her mouth despite clearly not being too excited about the prospect… I think this girl can do better though.
Still, something is very lackluster about this video… but it is interesting, and thus was mentioned on this blog
Update: Here is another blow job clip:
http://www.youporn.com/watch/113581
Now, while she is still questionable with respect to mouth, she seems to swallow and keeps rapport with the guy… not bad…
And then there is this one:
http://www.youporn.com/watch/112647
Slow, sensual – especially towards the end… but major major mistake. Most girls seem to underestimate how good it feels to enter rather than leave, so they take “suck” literally and, as the girls does in the video, go down with an open mouth and then suck, whereas it feels amazing when the mouth is tight when entering… rookie mistake usually
http://www.youporn.com/watch/112543
I always wondered what happened when a girl came – this answered my question. Really amazing how her muscles spasm at the end… very very cool video. Also, note how she massages the clitoris… Have to admit, watching her do it, I imagined that she is the girl I am seeing now – amazing turnon…
Another video – similar, but a guy fingering a girl. No orgasm (shame on the dude ):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYIwt3w_cHg
OK, Joe is THE man. Main take-aways:
OK, questions though:
If you keep the same motion, any chance she’ll get bored?
Should we suck with contact on the clit or without?
Ladies, your feedback would be very very appreciated. Also, if anybody has anything to add. Please do.
http://www.youporn.com/watch/113796
What is he doing in the beginning with his mouth? Sucking?
Excellent video… makes porn look sad…
http://www.youporn.com/watch/113281
Very very nice… can someone tell if this is a real orgasm?
Update: here is the longer version
Let me start with the end – advice: if you find yourself at a break in a relationship (regardless of whether you are the one breaking up or they are), just think of your ex as a “bastard” (or a “bitch”, if appropriate). Yea yea, we both know they aren’t. In fact, they are probably a great person, but thinking this just makes life easier. For now anyway. You get over them real quick, life becomes fun again, and you are able to move on and perhaps repair the relationship in the future through becoming actual platonic friends first…
And now for some context: recently, I went through a breakup. Although I am not sure if it is indeed a proper breakup as we still talk quite a bit and both really like and, arguably, love each other, but, at the time, for the first time in my life, I felt heartbroken. Or may be this was not the first time… or may be I wasn’t that heartbroken. But, regardless of how romantic one might frame it, the gist of it is: I felt like shit and was missing and loving this girl more than ever before. After this tumultuous time, however, after my girl and I spoke about it, there turned out to be a lot of similarities in how we dealt with the circumstances of “the other” breaking up with you, which, amazingly, we managed to do to each other. Go figure – only I can end up in a relationship with a beautiful girl with both of us feeling like the other is the one who ended the relationship.
Anyway, enough sap. Let’s get to the practical side. First of all, let me preface that, while many people subscribe to the idea that you should take care of the other person and thus think for them (i.e. disappear from their life even if you do not wish to), for me the jury is still out. I want to think of girls I date as my equals and thus I will not make decisions for them: the road to hell is paved with good intentions. I just try to be direct and honest. Or at least as much as possible.
So, when my long-distance relationship was moving nowhere fast, I told my girl that we needed to think this through. Now I stressed that we were not in a monogamous relationship, but that, somehow, didn’t necessarily make things easier. We were both bothered. So I pushed her away and then, after about a year of loving me, she flipped and started dating another guy. I was shocked: how? Mind you, I was her first man and I am positive that she loved me (and probably loves me still). How did she do it? Turned out it was easy: just think of me as a bastard.
Now, after I found out that she was seeing another guy, at that time I realized how much she meant to me and her indifference and coldness was incredibly painful. But, be that as it may, as soon as I said in my mind “what a bitch”, all of a sudden, things were ok. And when we, fast, resumed contact, somehow we stabilized out, and it was all fine…
So, moral of the story: if you are getting hurt – defence through consciously temporarily discrediting the individual who is hurting you works wonders for the mind.
http://www.youporn.com/watch/111571
Very interesting video, even if it doesn’t give much explanation. I like especially how he starts out the massage with long strokes over the skin – never thought of doing it like that. Will try though.
I recently had several very interesting sexual experiences in my life.
1. Girl 1: I read online (can’t find the link) about having sex in missionary making sure that lower abdomen keeps contact with the girl’s clitoris. Definitely works. From same source, placing her feet on your shoulders causes deeper penetration – works really really well. Conclusion: interesting position, increases intimacy, feels really freaking good.
2. Girl 2: I slept with a beautiful woman recently with whom, the first time we had sex, it was… well… mechanical. It wasn’t bad, but all you guys know when you are pumping away and she is exaggerating her sighs and you realize this. After, I talked to her – very bluntly telling her how I felt. The amazing thing is that it broke down her (and possibly my) barrier and made things feel honest… real… and then we had sex and it was amazing. Especially for the first night, but we had rapport, which, to my surprised, resulted in her coming several (I believe 3 if memory serves me right) times. What position? Missionary with legs up (see 1). Amazing experience. Also was psychologically much more satisfied afterwards. Moral of the story: don’t be afraid of honesty and hurting people’s feelings.
3. Girl 3. First time in my life that I tied someone up. Not hard, but sufficient: she was on a couch, arms tied above her and legs tied slightly spread (careful tying to make sure that, while she feels she doesn’t have control, you don’t cut off the circulation). It was amazingly interesting. The is the first time this girl had an orgasm with me (we slept together several times before) but with a combination of oral sex, finger, small vibrator ring, and pinky in her anus, she also came three times… took a while, although I enjoyed every second of it. Moral of the story: when a girl trusts you enough to give up control, with lots of work you can get her to where you want her.
