YouPorn Video: Sex while Climbing?!?! Whoa!

http://www.youporn.com/watch/185672/alpine-hot-sex/

OK, this is seriously hilarious.  Sex while climbing?  How the hell did she not fall out of her harness!?!?!?

YouPorn Video: Cute Girl, Big Penis and Talking Dirty

http://www.youporn.com/watch/150012

Wanted to write “cock”, but somehow that’s a rather unpleasant word.  Not like “penis” is that much more elegant…  speaking of, it’s amazing to me that fuck is a cuss word and there really isn’t a beautiful word in English for either penis or vagina…  even thought all three words should be incredibly beautiful…

Anyway, this video is a solid home amateur video of a guy with a big penis and a cute girl…  a bit of a faker she is I think, but then again…

It’s strange, but most women don’t know how to talk dirty… they lose rapport.  I had one girl tell me “I want you to put your huge cock into my wet pussy…”.  My reaction?  I bursted out laughing “I am sorry babe, I can’t do this… this is way too funny.”  She was perplexed.  We had a good laugh, but no sex.  She was very cute too…

 And then there was another girl who, whose simple statement ”Fuck me” was so saturated with emotion and desire that it was a huge turn-on.  I practically begged her to say it again and again…  Very strange

Honesty + Biting

Advice I: I just had the pleasure of spending a night with a girl who bit me lightly on the bone in the pelvis area – the hip-bone.  Hella-arousing.  Would recommend :)

Advice II: I did an incredibly difficult thing yesterday.  I was honest with my ex who still loves me about being with another woman.  The results were completely unexpected.  I was caught between a rock and a hard place – either I lie, which is terrible or I tell the truth of another woman being there, which will also make my friend feel like shit.  Well, I opted for the latter (in a back-asswards way) and, you know, the result was astounding.  It was as if a barrier was broken and I feel even closer to her than before.  Moreover, she understood, digested, I don’t know whether she is hurt, but I felt comfortable.  I feel comfortable.  It was an incredibly nice feeling.

 What’s the moral of the story?  If you love someone, even if you think you might hurt them with the truth, being truthful is the right way to go.  Yes, you may be flogged in the process, but, as terrifying as it may be, the end result might be surprisingly pleasant – elimination of lies, an ability to speak freely.

 I was always confused by the duality of being unable to commit yet loving a person and them refusing to accept (in my mind) such an arrangement.  But, perhaps this situation demonstrates the possibility of resolution.  Fascinating…  life is full of twists and turns…

Technique: Missionary hips

Recently discovered that if you are in missionary, her legs are on your shoulders, you can grab the thighs and move her body (provided she is relaxed) so that despite the fact that she is on her back, her body is doing most of the motion…  very pleasant sensation

YouPorn Video: Great Technique Hand Job

OK, girls, all of you should watch this.  Note the attention that is paid to the gland area (where the foreskin meets the tip) and note how she teases him by doing the pulling motion and then switching into pushing down (sqeeze on the down motion vs. squeeze on the up).  This is one of the most pleasant things in this world…  girls, don’t underestimate the power of a lubricated hand job.

http://www.youporn.com/watch/130651

YouPorn Video: Amazing Fellatio + oral advice

http://www.youporn.com/watch/26240

OK, this is a classic: this girl is ridiculous.  I had a girl deep-throat me once.  Ironically, it was the first blow job I ever got and never since had I had it done to me – I have to admit, it felt in-fucking-credible.  And this girl taking it all the way in as he is coming…  amazing.

 That reminds me - there was one time that a girl was going down on me and, as I came, she sucked exactly in rhythm with my convulsions.  It made the release so effortless, so pleasant…  girls, I would highly highly recommend you try this on your guy.  It’s ok if you don’t want to swallow – just spit it out immediately, but this feeling….  pure bliss.

YouPorn: Asian gives a blow job – mixed review

http://www.youporn.com/watch/113215

 OK, so the girl is cute, teases well in the beginning, but…  the good part is the fact that she deep throats – that looks amazing.  Towards the end, the way she focuses on the head of the penis while using her hand, also very good.  But…  correct me if I am wrong:

1.  The bodies are completely out of sync.  She is not relaxed, when he is moving, there is no resonance.

2.  She keeps doing that thing with her mouth when she thinks that she just has to go up and down on the penis only touching it with her lips…  unless she was using the tongue flat on the base, in which case…

Kudos to her that she let the guy come in her mouth despite clearly not being too excited about the prospect…  I think this girl can do better though.

 Still, something is very lackluster about this video…  but it is interesting, and thus was mentioned on this blog

Update: Here is another blow job clip:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/113581

Now, while she is still questionable with respect to mouth, she seems to swallow and keeps rapport with the guy…  not bad…

 And then there is this one:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/112647

Slow, sensual – especially towards the end…   but major major mistake.  Most girls seem to underestimate how good it feels to enter rather than leave, so they take “suck” literally and, as the girls does in the video, go down with an open mouth and then suck, whereas it feels amazing when the mouth is tight when entering…  rookie mistake usually

YouTube Video: Jenna Jameson explains sex to Joe Rogan

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYIwt3w_cHg

 OK, Joe is THE man.  Main take-aways:

1. “Priming the pussy” – kiss around, not on, increasing anticipation.  Thighs especially.  (My addition: Buttocks, inside of the knee, etc.)
2. Alphabet might be good to discover what she responds to, but not to get her off
3. Once you are in: start slow, create suction and move tongue at the same time.  (My add: this causes increased blood-flow, thus increased sensitivity).  Hold back.  Lock on and slowly accelerate the tongue.  It’s kinda difficult to keep mental rapport here, but can be done…
4. Keep the same exact motion.

OK, questions though:

If you keep the same motion, any chance she’ll get bored?

Should we suck with contact on the clit or without?

 Ladies, your feedback would be very very appreciated.  Also, if anybody has anything to add.  Please do.

How to break up without breaking down: (s)he is a BASTARD!

Let me start with the end – advice: if you find yourself at a break in a relationship (regardless of whether you are the one breaking up or they are), just think of your ex as a “bastard” (or a “bitch”, if appropriate).  Yea yea, we both know they aren’t.  In fact, they are probably a great person, but thinking this just makes life easier.  For now anyway.  You get over them real quick, life becomes fun again, and you are able to move on and perhaps repair the relationship in the future through becoming actual platonic friends first…   

And now for some context: recently, I went through a breakup.  Although I am not sure if it is indeed a proper breakup as we still talk quite a bit and both really like and, arguably, love each other, but, at the time, for the first time in my life, I felt heartbroken.  Or may be this was not the first time…  or may be I wasn’t that heartbroken.  But, regardless of how romantic one might frame it, the gist of it is: I felt like shit and was missing and loving this girl more than ever before.  After this tumultuous time, however, after my girl and I spoke about it, there turned out to be a lot of similarities in how we dealt with the circumstances of “the other” breaking up with you, which, amazingly, we managed to do to each other.  Go figure – only I can end up in a relationship with a beautiful girl with both of us feeling like the other is the one who ended the relationship.

Anyway, enough sap.  Let’s get to the practical side.  First of all, let me preface that, while many people subscribe to the idea that you should take care of the other person and thus think for them (i.e. disappear from their life even if you do not wish to), for me the jury is still out.  I want to think of girls I date as my equals and thus I will not make decisions for them: the road to hell is paved with good intentions.  I just try to be direct and honest.  Or at least as much as possible.

So, when my long-distance relationship was moving nowhere fast, I told my girl that we needed to think this through.  Now I stressed that we were not in a monogamous relationship, but that, somehow, didn’t necessarily make things easier.  We were both bothered.  So I pushed her away and then, after about a year of loving me, she flipped and started dating another guy.  I was shocked: how?  Mind you, I was her first man and I am positive that she loved me (and probably loves me still).  How did she do it?  Turned out it was easy: just think of me as a bastard. 

 Now, after I found out that she was seeing another guy, at that time I realized how much she meant to me and her indifference and coldness was incredibly painful.  But, be that as it may, as soon as I said in my mind “what a bitch”, all of a sudden, things were ok.  And when we, fast, resumed contact, somehow we stabilized out, and it was all fine…

 So, moral of the story: if you are getting hurt – defence through consciously temporarily discrediting the individual who is hurting you works wonders for the mind.

YouPorn Video: Massage Girl to Orgasm

http://www.youporn.com/watch/111571

 Very interesting video, even if it doesn’t give much explanation.  I like especially how he starts out the massage with long strokes over the skin – never thought of doing it like that.  Will try though.