Fantasy – blinded, girl in control…

OK, this is not too bad…  I’ve never done this – gotta say it’s pretty appealing:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/15595

Watching this along with seeing a blog of a swinger, I got an idea…  this sort of stuff should be far more educational – porn bringing about skill in bed.  Moreover, if we take this progression one step forward, we have:

Step 1 – people open their minds with respect to dating

Step 2 – people discover porn

Step 3 – people start learning from porn and it turns into an educational aid

Step 4 – individuals start getting together and teaching/learning things

I often feel like I have no clue what I am doing.  Or rather I know, but it’s as if I barely speak the alphabet let alone form sentences out of words.  For example, one of my lovers several years ago taught me how to do a mutual bite…  it was quite incredible – parts of me woke up that were purely animal: a connection through something intangible – pain.  Yet this, I feel, may be just the tip of the iceberg…  Could amateur porn and user-generated content bring about a revolution in sex?

Blind Love

Another forbidden thought that, had I written it in my personal blog, would possibly affect my business and relationships…  The other day, some friends of mine and I helped a blind woman.  She must have been in her late 20s, early 30s, Asian, she was lost.  Long story short, we guided her to a taxi and, as we led her, she held on to my arm for guidance.  The part right by the elbow.  She was amazingly responsive.  All I had to do was move slightly in one direction or another and she would follow with almost now pressure.  It was as if she were a feather pushed gently around by the wind.  Not pushed, the floated with it, not on it.  It was a soft, gentle, phenomenal touch.  And, as I think back to the experience, I wonder, what would it be to make love to her?  What would our communication become?  It must be an amazing experience to love a blind woman – a woman in perpetual darkness incredibly sensitive to touch.

What about love between two blind people?  I wonder what that looks like.  Think about it: neither of them has ever seen sexual intercourse.  They know of it, but they have never seen it and so can’t emulate it based on observation.  This could answer how much of sex is nature and how much is nurture…  So if I meet that woman and we end up in bed and she is on top, what would happen?

Which leads me to the next question: do blind guys masturbate?  Or do they start later or earlier?  Do they try it because they hear about it?  I remember hearing a story about a couple in Russia with the girl complaining that the guy just goes in and stays there…  doesn’t move…   and when she suggested that he should move, he got angry accusing her of whoring around.  So, if this story is true, could sex be a cognitive creation?